There’s a reason why most people equate buying a home with settling down. Buying a home generally means your life is stable, your job isn’t in danger and you’re probably married or in a serious relationship. If you’ve reached this stage of adulthood, it means you likely have an idea of what you want out of life.
Ideally, it also means your finances are in order.
But as much as you may want to stop renting and start owning, the home buying process isn’t for the faint of heart. Beyond that, home ownership comes with a host of potential problems and expenses that renters likely don’t need to worry about. A home is also the largest purchase most people make in their lifetime – so are you ready for that kind of commitment?
To find out, here are some tough questions to ask yourself before talking to a realtor.
Are You Financially Secure?
Before you start binge watching HGTV and picking out paint chips, ask yourself the following: Do you have an emergency fund? If so, how many month’s worth of expenses are in it? An emergency fund covers the bills when you lose your job, need surgery or have to travel to a family member’s funeral. It’s a crucial first step to financial stability.
With a fully-stocked emergency fund, you won’t miss a mortgage payment because you can’t work. It’s your final defense against losing your home due to circumstances out of your control. If you don’t have a solid three to six month’s worth of expenses in a savings account, you may want to keep working on that before buying a house.
The next question to consider is whether or not you have debt, and how much. If you have too much debt, you won’t qualify for a mortgage. Lenders look at your debt to income (DTI) ratio to determine if you have enough available income to pay them back every month. Don’t know your DTI? There’s an app for that! Check out
If your job is steady, you have adequate savings and little debt, then owning a home is probably right for you. If you’re still dealing with lingering money issues, focus on tightening up your finances first.
How Long Do You Want to Stay in the Area?
When buying a home, you pay several fees upfront, including appraisal fees, inspection costs and loan origination fees. These fees will likely cost several thousand dollars, if not more. This means that, in general, you need to stay in the home for five to seven years to break even. If you sell your home before that time, the home’s value might not have grown enough to cover closing costs.
If you like to move around or work for a company that may transfer you to a different city, buying a home doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. Let’s look at a possible scenario. You buy a home in March, and in November your boss says the branch is being closed and you’re being transferred to another city. You can decline and find a new position where you live, or you can take the offer.
You like your job, so you accept the company’s offer. But now you have to sell your home in the two weeks before your moving date. Because that date is so close to Thanksgiving, you don’t get many nibbles on the listing. In the end it takes two months for your home to sell, while you’ve been stuck paying both your mortgage and new rent.
Scenarios like this are more common than you might think, and illustrate why home ownership isn’t always the best choice – even if you can afford it.
Are You Ready for Home Ownership?
Home ownership looks easy on the outside, but the reality is a lot different than a Home Depot commercial. If you’ve been renting your entire life, you’ve always had a landlord to call when there’s an issue with the property. You’ve never had to worry about fixing leaking pipes or replacing the air conditioner when it breaks. As a homeowner, the buck stops with you.
Not only is it expensive to fix your house when something goes bad, it’s also time-consuming. Instead of calling the landlord and transferring the responsibility, it will be up to you to find a contractor, get multiple quotes and take time off work to deal with the problem. That’s not even mentioning the stress.
If your budget can’t support putting an extra couple hundred dollars a month toward repairs – or you don’t want to deal with home repairs at all – you’re probably not ready to buy a house. In fact, some people happily choose to rent their entire lives, putting the money they would use on a house towards other investments. There’s no rule that says you need to own a house to be financially stable.
What Kind of Home Do You Want?
Before you start house hunting, you need to figure out what you’re truly looking for in a home. It’s easy to think “I’ll know it when I see it,” but that attitude usually leads to a long, drawn-out search process. If you’re ready to buy a house, you’re ready to get specific.
The basic questions are easy – how many bedrooms you want, what neighborhoods do you like and what kind of yard fits your lifestyle, for example. Then, it gets more complicated. Do you need to be close to work or do you mind commuting? Do you have kids, and if so do you need to buy a home in a specific school district? Are you looking for a particular architectural style?
If you’re married or in a serious relationship, talk to your partner about what kind of home they envision. Consider whether this will be a starter home or your dream house. The answer to that question will further narrow down what you’re looking for.
Can You Save for a Down Payment?
When you take out a mortgage, you have to
You need to have a down payment of at least
If you can’t afford to save for the down payment, you probably won’t be able to qualify for the mortgage. Some loans, such as VA or USDA loans, allow people to buy a house without a down payment. There also are some first-time home buyer programs to help people save for a down payment, so look into those if you’re having trouble.
What is Your Credit Score?
Good credit is essential for buying a home and being approved a mortgage. You need a
Before you attend an open house or sign up for notifications on Zillow, check your credit report at
Next, look up your credit score for free through the
If your score is lower than 700, look at potential issues that could be dragging it down. Do you use a large portion of your credit every month? Do you have a bunch of recent hard inquiries? Is your credit history too short? Turbo will show why your score is low and even give ideas on how to fix it.
Having a high credit score will also pay off when you get a lower interest rate on your mortgage. Locking in a low interest rate now will pay off in the long run, because you’ll save thousands or more over the lifetime of the loan.
Buying a home is one of the biggest financial decisions you’ll ever make, so it needs to be the right one. Don’t jump into anything because all your friends are buying a house or your parents are wondering when you’ll finally do it. Ask yourself these questions and you’ll know when the time is right.